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Learn to be Quiet and Calm
From the point of view of individual
development and for those who are still at the beginning of
the path, to know how to remain silent before what one does
not understand is one of the things which would help most in
the progress -to know how to remain silent, not only externally,
without uttering a word, but also to know how to be silent within,
so that the mind does not assert its ignorance with its usual
presumptuousness, does not try to understand with an instrument
that is incapable of understanding, that it may know its own
weakness and open simply, quietly, waiting until the time has
come for it to receive the light, because only the light, the
true light, can give it understanding. It is not all that it
has learnt nor all that it has observed nor all its so-called
experience of life, it is something else which is completely
beyond it. And until this something else -which is the expression
of the Grace - manifests within it, if, very quietly, very modestly
the mind remains silent and does not try to understand and,
above all, to judge, things would go much faster .
The noise made by all the words, all
the ideas in your head is so deafening that it prevents you
from hearing the truth when it wants to manifest.
To learn to be quiet and silent... When
you have a problem to solve, instead of turning over in your
head all the possibilities, all the consequences, all the possible
things one should or should not do, if you remain quiet with
an aspiration for goodwill, if possible a need for goodwill,
the solution comes very quickly. And as you are silent you are
able to hear it.
When you are caught in
a difficulty , try this method: instead of becoming agitated,
turning over all the ideas and actively seeking solutions, of
worrying, fretting, running here and there inside your head
-I don't mean externally, for externally you probably have enough
common sense not to do that but inside, in your head -remain
quiet. And according to your nature, with ardour or peace,
with intensity or widening or with all these, together, implore
the Light and wait for it to come.
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Someone has asked me what I meant by these words: "One
must be calm. "
It is obvious that when I tell someone,
"Be calm", I mean many different things according
to the person. But the first indispensable calm is mental quietude,
for generally that is the one that's most lacking. When I tell
someone, "Be calm", I mean: Try not to have restless,
excited, agitated thoughts; try to quieten your mind and to
stop turning around in all your imaginations and observations
and mental constructions.
One could justifiably add a question:
You tell us "Be calm" , but what should we do to be
calm ? ...The answer is always more or less the same: you must
first of all feel the need for it and want it, and then aspire,
and then try! For trying, there are innumerable methods which
have been prescribed and attempted by many. These methods are
generally long, arduous, difficult; and many people get discouraged
before reaching the goal, for, the more they try , the more
do their thoughts start whirling around and becoming restless
in their heads.
For each one the method is different,
but first one must feel the need, for whatever reason
it may be -whether because one is tired or because one is overstrained
or because one truly wants to rise beyond the state one lives
in -one must first understand, feel the need of this quietude,
this peace in the mind. And then, afterwards, one may try out
successively all the methods, known ones and new, to attain
the result.
Now, one quickly realises that there
is another quietude which is necessary , and even very urgently
needed - this is vital quietude, that is to say, the absence
of desire. Only, the vital when not sufficiently developed,
as soon as it is told to keep quiet, either goes to sleep or
goes on strike; it says, "Ah! no. Nothing doing! I won't
go any farther. If you don't give me the sustenance I need,
excitement, enthusiasm, desire, even passion, I prefer not to
move and I won't do anything any longer ." there the problem
becomes a little more delicate and perhaps even more difficult
still; for surely, to fall from excitement into inertia is very
far from being a progress! One must never mistake inertia or
a somnolent passivity for calm.
Quietude is a very positive state; there
is a positive peace which is not the opposite of conflict -an
active peace, contagious, powerful, which controls and calms,
which puts everything in order, organises. It is of this I am
speaking; when I tell someone, "Be calm", I don't
mean to say "Go and sleep, be inert and passive, and don't
do anything", far from it!... True quietude is a very great
force, a very great strength. In fact one can say, looking at
the problem from the other side, that all those who are really
strong, powerful, are always very calm. It is only the weak
who are agitated *
CWM Vol. 9
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